Let's spread kindness to our elder neighbors

Beyond Words

By Deborah Rose

Writing is a powerful tool and a wonderful way to stay connected. 

Unfortunately, we live in a fast-paced world that is focused on technology and instant gratification.

The art of letter-writing has slipped into the abyss.

But New Milford Public Library is shining a spotlight on it with an activity aimed at bringing a smile to our neighbors’ faces.

Residents are invited to write a letter to an elder in recognition of National Letter to an Elder Day Feb. 26.

I love this idea!

There are many elder residents in the community who live alone, may not be able to get out and about, or have loved ones nearby but still appreciate know they are on someone's mind.

Others may be engaged in a solid social network around them, but that doesn't mean they wouldn't appreciate a handwritten note.

Having lived through the COVID pandemic, we can attest how important human connection and communication is.

Throw in a handwritten note and wow! 

Let’s spread a little love with our neighbors through this special activity.

The letters will be distributed to the residents of the two skilled care facilities in town, Candlewood Valley Health & Rehabilitation and Village Crest Center for Health & Rehabilitation, as well as two elder population living communities, Butter Brook Hill Apartments and Glen Ayre.

At various times in my life, I have had family members and friends who have resided at all four communities.

I recall the joy it brought to those I knew who periodically received pictures and cards from people in the area - including Scouts, church groups and others – for no other reason than to share kindness and love.

In more recent years, I recall visiting my father and finding seasonal artwork made by youth hung on the wall at his room at a skilled care facility.

The colorful scenes and messages made in crayon or marker brightened the room and I knew lifted his spirits.

He was thought of, and that mattered to him.

So, get out paper or a note card, and write a kind message that can be shared with an elder in our community.

Letters do not need to be addressed to a particular person; they should be generic.

The library is accepting generic letters through Feb. 24, although those needing more time to write have until Feb. 26 at 10 a.m. to drop them off at the library. For more information, contact Hannah Albright at the library at 860-355-1191 or halbright@newmilfordlibrary.org.